Breathing Unilateral Intermittent Tantra Sastra

The system of Tantra Sastra of Hinduism, followed by the Shaktas(who worship Devi,Goddess as Mother, has a detailed analysis of Breathing.

The System of Tantra Sastra is interwoven intrinsically with The Yoga , as enunciated by Patanjali in his Yoga Sutras.

One division, one can not really call it a division, as the system is an Organic whole,deals with Respiration, ‘Swasa.

The basic premise in Sakthi worship, in respect of bodies, that is without consciousness, is that it is breathing that differentiates and infuses Life and Consciousness.

The breathing process or respiration combined with the Heat Energy outside the body in the Universe, creates and sustains Life.

As Hinduism postulates there are two bodies, Stoola(Gross) and Sukshma(Subtle)

The Stula Sareera or the Body without Life is called Jata,Inert.

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The system of Tantra Sastra of Hinduism, followed by the Shaktas(who worship Devi,Goddess as Mother, has a detailed analysis of Breathing.

The System of Tantra Sastra is interwoven intrinsically with The Yoga , as enunciated by Patanjali in his Yoga Sutras.

The Tantra Sastra of Hinduism
Tantra Sastra

One division, one can not really call it a division, as the system is an Organic whole,deals with Respiration, ‘Swasa.

The basic premise in Sakthi worship, in respect of bodies, that is without consciousness, is that it is breathing that differentiates and infuses Life and Consciousness.

The breathing process or respiration combined with the Heat Energy outside the body in the Universe, creates and sustains Life.

As Hinduism postulates there are two bodies, Stoola(Gross) and Sukshma(Subtle)

The Stula Sareera or the Body without Life is called Jata,Inert.

It is the Swasa and its combination with heat energy infuses Life into the Stula or Gross body(Jata or inert body becoming conscious)

‘Jatasakthi Jatahmika(Lalitha Sahasranama)

Every womb has its innate Heat, Garba Agni, that is every womb has its potent heat unique to each.

The Life or the Individual soul after Death, to reao the consequences of the actions performed by the body it has left, chooses a unique Garba(Womb or Yoni( female genital Organ,

The Swasa is blown into the Garba Agni and Life is created.

It is the precept of the Tantra Shastra that there are 840000 Differntial Yonis, that is differentiation of Female Genital-this is applicable to each genital Organ.

To put in another way each Organ is programmed to create 840000 more Geniatl Organs or new Life

When , as said earlier, heat and Swasa mingle Life is On.

When the Respiration stops, het leaves the Body, it grows cold.

So Gross body with out Life has o be respected as it has provided shelter to the Soul.

Hindus, after death, consign the body into flames, returning it to its partner Heat, an attribute of Fire.

How come that there are different species?

is due to Breathing, Respiration.

The length of humans is 12″ while that of Animals is 10′ or 8′ depending on its size.

Again this breath between man and Animals has a vital difference.

While Man has Intermittent Breathing, Animals have Unilateral Breathing.

To be continued.

Ref.Sakthini Padam by Proodan Sukumar.

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One Point Five Million Hits And Discussions On The Net

It is at the end of this post.

I did not post any blog on completion of one million hits as I thought it better not to write about it as one writes hits come.

Nothing earth-shaking about it.

But on this occasion , I thought it would be better if I post on how the Internet is reacting to the Blog.

So, I checked under discussions for ramanan50.


This blog has reached 1.5 Million Hits some time , either yesterday or to-day; as usual I did not notice it till a Reader sent an email on this with a Link

It is at the end of this post.

I did not post any blog on completion of one million hits as I thought it better not to write about it as one writes hits come.

Nothing earth-shaking about it.

But on this occasion , I thought it would be better if I post on how the Internet is reacting to the Blog.

So, I checked under discussions for ramanan50.

The Result.

138 results were available in Google Search.

Some discussions.

1.This one from Google group.

Dear members

FYI
 
 
Respond to this post by replying above this line

New post on Ramani’s blog

Church Issues Sex Diplomas.

by ramanan50

In a bizarre case a Church was found issuing Sex Diplomas to Teens in Sweden!

‘A “shagging diploma” given to youths at a Church of Sweden confirmation camp proved too much for parents who complained Wednesday that their 14-year-olds were too young for sex…
After attending a course entitled “Love and Sexuality”, the teenagers in the southeastern town of Rödeby were given a certificate and badge stating they were “qualified for sex”.

Vicar Mats-Ola Nylen said the course had been organized by a man purporting to come from the Swedish Association for Sexuality Education (RFSU), but the church later found out he hadn’t worked for the organization in years.

Read more of this post

https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/school-social-work-in-india/N__iy4N4S0A

This one from WEB MD.

astrodave posted:

 I am not posting any more on this.
I am happy that various respectable sites are discussing the points raised in the blog, in various disciplines,in various languages, including foreign languages.
It is nice to know you are noticed.

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Masturbation Porn Watching Abstinence Study


Latest study to make it big on the study of Porn watching , masturbation.

I have a few posts on the subject.

Porn research.
Porn Study.

I have provided Links towards the end of the posts.

Studies, studies everywhere, not to know which is right’

Go ahead.

Watching porn can certainly have a negative effect on your sex life. According to a survey of the NoFap community, a group of people who are attempting to quit masturbating to online pornography, 49 percent of the self-titled “Fapstronauts” have never had sex with another person. Additionally, 59 percent say they watched porn between four and 15 hours a week before swearing it off.

In an effort to call attention to the problem, ProjectKnow.com, a resource site for learning about addictions of all types, has taken the raw data from an April, 2012, “Fapstronaut” survey and produced the info-graphic below.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/29/porn-addiction_n_4004069.html

http://en.search.wordpress.com/?q=porn&site=ramanan50.wordpress.com

Sex Education What Students Say

The latter, unless it is instinctive,is nothing but a deviation(no psychological; connotation) and mostly leads to Perversions, which one might be unaware of before coming in possession of such information.

Despite the emergence of a Free Society( should this be in only Copulation?), the individuals feel awkward in vocalizing sexual thoughts, especially with those who are close to them even


Sex Education
Sex Education In Schools.

There is a move by the Government of India to introduce Sex Education in School , as a part of curriculum.

“So, it also becomes important to educate school teachers so that they can handle such issues with maturity. One such step has been taken by Umeed, a leading organization of counsellors led by Salony Priya, by organizing a workshop to deal effectively with health and sexuality issues among adolescents. The two-day workshop on July 4 and 5 is being organized at Frank Anthony Public School and will be attended by teachers from almost every leading English-medium school in the city.( Times of India-July,4, 2013)

David Cameron ,the  Prime Minister of UK , is launching Telegraph Wonder Women’s ‘Better Sex Education’ campaign.

I have been maintaining, that Sex is a Basic instinct and need not be taught.

The organism knows how to go about it.

It is not a kill to be taught.

Some may disagree stating that there is a lot of difference between Sex and Informed Sex(!).

The latter, unless it is instinctive,is nothing but a deviation(no psychological; connotation) and mostly leads to Perversions, which one might be unaware of before coming in possession of such information.

Despite the emergence of a Free Society( should this be in only Copulation?), the individuals feel awkward in vocalizing sexual thoughts, especially with those who are close to them even!

The Telegraph of UK conducted a Survey to find out what the Students feel about Sex Education.

Excerpts.

I am 16 and I think that sex ed is the funniest and most ridiculously taught of anything. However, it is also the topic that I feel most young people should be informed properly about and not be conformed to using cheesy and corny videos of cartoons, nor should the extent of sex ed in high school be a more sophisticated re-run of corny junior school sex ed videos, or using bananas to practice putting on condoms. It should be changed.

 don’t remember learning much from sex ed. But I did learn quite a bit from Grange Hill.
Mark

QuoteI remember all of the class throwing condoms at the teacher, after she handed them out!
Shanil

QuoteWe had sex education lessons only a few times. But then once in year 9, the boys and girls were split up for an emergency sex education lesson – because my school panicked after two pupils were caught doing naughty things in the gardens on a school trip. In that ‘special’ class, the teacher was great – just open and honest.
Adam

QuoteAll that happened to us was we were shown scary pictures, got taught how to put condoms on a fake penis and that was it. We were all already sexually aware from the internet.
The scary pictures made us feel like: IF YOU HAVE SEX – THIS WILL HAPPEN AND YOU WILL DIE. 

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/better-sex-education/10285698/Sex-education-Top-10-nightmare-memories.html

Sex, Prostitutes Psychologists Say The Same

Now has come a stage where a Prostitute can advise people on Sex to Men.

Well, experience speaks.

What is appalling is the coverage they get in the Media and the gumption on their part to shamelessly speak about their professional experiences.

How would it look for their children to know of this, if these people ever get married, do not worry some idiot will!

The same advice is given by Psychologists as well.


Now has come a stage where a Prostitute can advise people on Sex to Men.

Well, experience speaks.

What is appalling  is the coverage they get in the Media and the gumption on their part to shamelessly speak about their professional experiences.

How would it look for their children to know of this, if these people ever get married, do not worry some idiot will!

The same advice is given by Psychologists as well.

Sex Life.
Sex Life.

Read.

 

Tasha Reign is the most dynamic and multi-dimensional new star in entertainment. And she’s graciously agreed to contribute to BroBible twice per month. Her first column seeks to help dudes be better in bed. Some might call these tips lifehacks. We’ll just call them vital. 15 Things Women Want Yo to Do in Bed (Part 1) is below.

1. Do something with her before or after the act, movie, dinner, event, drinks, games, anything. It makes the whole act seem like an event and something that she may want to go above and beyond to please you during instead of a sex session just for you.

2.  Compliment your girl and make her feel great about everything, from her make-up to her hair, her eyes, her body, the whole shebang. The key here is KEEP IT REAL. Really try to find things on her or about her that you think are absolute turn-ons and focus on them, women love sex when they feel sexy!

3. Foreplay is important, play with her, tease her, use your tongue everywhere, be wild and excited about her and most importantly make her feel like she’s the sexiest woman on earth. If you are having sex with her just to get yourself off, she will know.

4. Look at her while you are fucking. I like a man to stare into my soul while he fucks my brains out. It’s confident and intimate.

5. Do not get straight to pounding away at her like the jack hammer performers you have seen in the most hardcore and intense adult scene of your life, you want this to be pleasurable for both parties. There is a big difference between real sex and performance sex. Performance sex is for whomever is watching. Real sex is for whomever is partaking.

6. Do ask her if what you are doing feels good to her without prying and being repetitive, just listen to her moaning and look up at the face, ask in a way that is sensual and not insecure.

7. CONFIDENCE is key, that the hottest thing a man can wear, period

8 Whisper. I love when guys fuck me hard, and deep while they whisper in my ear, low and growly. Nothing could make me want the D more.

9. Compliment her skills, sincerely and personally. If she gives great head, if she rides you well, if she kisses you hard and deep let her know just how much that turns you on and how wonderful it is.

10. Be vocal. Dirty talk is always so hot and especially when the man takes the lead and shows me how it is done and why he wants his member where he wants it.

http://www.brobible.com/life/article/things-women-want-in-bed

‘Drive-In’ For Sex

Prostitution has been there since Mankind began.

There have attempts to either to control it or ban it.

But human nature being what it is, it continues, as Drinking and Gambling do.

These are human foibles and one can do nothing about it, except by strong moral values.

But now it is a fad to question everything in the garb of freedom of thought .

So be it.

In human survival only the fittest Will.

Those who are profligate will lose the battle.

I can hear some one where is the proof that the Profligate will not survive?

Well, some things are better experienced .

Now Switzerland has come to a decision to regulate prostitution, by…?

Opening a Sex Drive In!

If you can not beat them, join them, justify it with far-fetched arguments.

Prostitution cost will go up.


Sex Box in Drive In, Switzerland.They will then drive into one of the wooden sheds, which are hung with safe sex posters.
The boxes are equipped with panic alarms which can be activated if the clients or prostitutes feel in any danger.
The sex workers will have to register with a health insurer and buy a ‘work ticket’ each night for £3.50 each night that they work.
Prostitution in Zurich will be confined to the booths and two other zones after they open.
This is intended to curb the large numbers of prostitutes working in residential areas and in the city centre.

Prostitution has been there since Mankind began.

There have been attempts  to either to control it or ban it.

But human nature being what it is, it continues, as Drinking and Gambling do.

These are human foibles and one can do nothing about it, except by strong moral values.

But now it is a fad to question everything in the garb of freedom of thought .

So be it.

In human survival only the fittest Will.

Those who are profligate will lose the battle.

I can hear some one where is the proof that the Profligate will not survive?

Well, some things are better experienced .

Now Switzerland has come to a decision to  regulate prostitution, by…?

Opening a Sex Drive In!

If you can not beat them, join them, justify it with far-fetched arguments.

Prostitution cost will go up.

Story:

Authorities in Zurich are trying an innovative way to regulate prostitution by introducing ‘sex boxes’ as discreet solicitation areas.

The nine boxes to be unveiled this month in a former industrial estate have been converted at a cost of £1.5 million.

They will be in use daily, from early evening until 5am.

They will then drive into one of the wooden sheds, which are hung with safe sex posters.

The boxes are equipped with panic alarms which can be activated if the clients or prostitutes feel in any danger.

The sex workers will have to register with a health insurer and buy a ‘work ticket’ each night for £3.50 each night that they work.

Prostitution in Zurich will be confined to the booths and two other zones after they open.

This is intended to curb the large numbers of prostitutes working in residential areas and in the city centre.

Similar to a car wash, drivers must first pass a checkpoint, where they will negotiate the rate, before proceeding to one of the nine booths for some private time. Each sex drive-in is equipped with an alarm so workers can immediately notify authorities in case of emergency. Security guards and social workers will also be on hand.

The sex stalls are expected to be open daily from 7 p.m. to 5 a.m. Women working at the drive-in will be required to pay for a permit and medical insurance, along with a nightly tax fee of five Swiss francs (about $5).

The set-up is part of an ongoing effort to regulate prostitution in the country. Last July, for example, the Swiss government amended its criminal code to make it illegal to pay a 16 or 17-year-old for sex.

Source:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/15/zurich-sex-drive-in-zurich-sex-boxes-switzerland_n_3763829.html?utm_hp_ref=weird-news

Husband Wife Can Not be Your Best Friend

I came across an article on this and noticed this discussion some forums.

It is often assumed that you can share everything with your friend without any reservation.

Fact is that the one whom you can share without reservations is your best friend and not the other way.

When you share something with some one you should not be apprehensive about the fall out or the consequences of divulging such information.

One has to be wary of the fact that it might their attitude and behavior towards you.

The one whom you share might have their own agenda.

This is likely to complicate relations with them further because you are not sure whether their advice or opinions are colored and biased in their favor.

In general it is no practical to share everything with relatives, wife/husband included for the reasons mentioned above.

In the case of a friend it is different for they have no axe to grind nor are they interested in using your information or in some cases,You!

It is often thought one is expected to share everything with those whom they Love.

Incorrect.

Unselfish, Altruistic Love is Utopian, not practical.

In any relationship there is always an element of expectation.

Moreover one loves some one for certain qualities and not for all the qualities one possesses.

Therefore their perceptions need not concur with others and they never will.

So the question of sharing is fraught with complication with relatives.

But as I said earlier it is not so with friends.

The problem is that such friends are rare to come by.

I am fortunate to have such a friend(read my post on Friendship)

Coming to the issue of sharing with Spouse,it is very dicey and often leads to complications.

This dos not mean you do not love.

The conception that Love is complete only when you share, in my opinion is childish.

Love is about caring, that’s all.

This requires a more healthy and mature Attitude than sharing.

Yet the question of sharing between Man and Woman always, though unspoken, has sexual implications.

Platonic Love is for Plato_Did he have a happy married Life?

Some references and discussions.


I came across an article on this and noticed this discussion in some forums.

Spouse is the Best Friend
Spouse is the Best Friend?

It is often assumed that you can share everything with your friend without any reservation.

Fact is that the one whom you can share without reservations is your best friend  and not the other way.

When you share something with some one you should not be apprehensive about the fall out or the consequences of divulging such information.

One has to be wary of the fact that it might change their attitude and behavior towards you.

The one whom you share might have their own agenda.

This is likely to complicate relations with them further because you are not sure whether their advice or opinions are colored and biased in their favor.

In general, it is not practical to share everything with relatives, wife/husband included for the reasons mentioned above.

In the case of a friend it is different for they have no axes to grind nor are they interested in using your information or in some cases,You!

It is often thought one is expected to share everything with  those whom they Love.

Incorrect.

Unselfish, Altruistic  Love is Utopian, not practical.

In any relationship there is always an element of expectation.

Moreover one loves some one for certain qualities and not for all the qualities one possesses.

Therefore ,their perceptions need not concur with others and they never will.

So the question of sharing is fraught with complication with relatives.

But as I said earlier it is not so with friends.

The problem is that such friends are rare to come by.

I am fortunate to have such a friend(read my post on Friendship)

Coming to the issue of sharing with Spouse,it is very dicey and often leads to complications.

This does not mean you do not love.

The conception that Love is complete only when you share, in my opinion, is childish.

Love is about caring, that’s all.

This requires a more healthy and mature  Attitude than sharing.

Yet the question of sharing between Man and Woman always, though unspoken, has sexual implications.

Platonic Love is for Plato_Did he have a happy married Life?

Some references and discussions.

*There are exceptions,

For most people, their spouse is the person they see the most on any given day. From the moment they wake up in the morning to the moment they go to sleep at night, it’s their spouse who hears all of their thoughts and ideas, who listens to their observations on the day, and who does it all over again the next. But does that make their spouse their best friend?

The other night over dinner, this question came up with some girlfriends of mine. They are lucky enough to have the lifelong friends some of us can only dream about. Friends who have known them since they were 4, nursed them through high school breakups and junior high drama. Friends who know their family dynamics better than their cousins and stood beside them at their wedding, tearing up and smiling for the camera.

So who is our “best friend”? For me, it’s my husband. Hands down. I have other people I adore and feel close to, but no one knows my innermost everything like my husband. Then again, I am lucky in that I have known him since I was 10 and he DID know my family … So maybe it’s different if you meet in your late 20s or 30s.

We asked around and polled 14 women to ask their opinions and got a varied amount of amazing responses. Here are some:

1.) “When asked who my BFF is, I never think to respond my husband, but if I think about what one means, then yes, he is. That said, he’s NOT my favorite person to do everything with, and there are some things I’d rather do/issues I’d rather discuss with my BFF than him.”

2.) “No one knows me like the friend I grew up with. She was my neighbor, she knew my parents when they were alive and she knew them well. I love my husband, but no one could ever know me like her.”

3.) “I’m closer with him than anyone, feel most comfortable around him, have so much fun with him, and know I can count on him more than anyone else. However, that said, there are some things he just doesn’t get that my girl ‘best friend’ does — especially when it comes to being a mom and how much we put into it!”

4.) “My husband is my best friend. As for why — he’s funny, he’s good company, he likes many of the same things I do, and he’s been my partner through thick and thin for over 13 years.”

5.) “Yes, he is. We went into this as best friends, and I wouldn’t want it any other way. I have other best friends, but he’s number one.”

6.) “Without a doubt, my husband is my best friend. Still, I’m proud to have several other friends that are very close behind. But we don’t have sex so …?”

7.) “I have a best friend that isn’t my husband. Obviously, my husband and I know each other like only we could know. We support one another emotionally, we have great conversations and so much fun together. We are raising kids and sharing a house together and I couldn’t imagine doing it with another human being, but my best friend is someone who I have known forever, we have shared more with each other than any other. Both experiences and secrets. We have shared hilarious times, sad times, great times, and horrendous times together and I honestly would not be where I am today without her love, advice, and guidance.”

8.) “My husband and I are probably totally co-dependent in that we do everything together (even grocery shop). He is my foil, the shoulder I can lean on when I am down, and the person who has my back all the time. Sometimes I feel bad for not having that one woman who is my soul sister BFF, but then I think about my marriage and how LUCKY we are. I am so thankful that I have this man I want to talk to all night and rip off his clothes at the same time. Even after a decade of marriage. So yeah, he’s my best friend with a million benefits, to boot.”

http://askville.amazon.com/husband-friend/AnswerViewer.do?requestId=89360982

http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/159547/does_your_husband_have_to

I think declaring that your husband is your best friend is very trendy these days. With that said, I am sure many of you consider your husband to be your best friend. However when I married 43 years ago I loved and still love my husband dearly. However, he is NOT my best friend. Why ? Because who do you talk to when your husband pisses you off ? Not him….its your best friend, who in my case happens to be a girl who understands me so much better than my husband.
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