Sex Education What Students Say

The latter, unless it is instinctive,is nothing but a deviation(no psychological; connotation) and mostly leads to Perversions, which one might be unaware of before coming in possession of such information.

Despite the emergence of a Free Society( should this be in only Copulation?), the individuals feel awkward in vocalizing sexual thoughts, especially with those who are close to them even

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Sex Education
Sex Education In Schools.

There is a move by the Government of India to introduce Sex Education in School , as a part of curriculum.

“So, it also becomes important to educate school teachers so that they can handle such issues with maturity. One such step has been taken by Umeed, a leading organization of counsellors led by Salony Priya, by organizing a workshop to deal effectively with health and sexuality issues among adolescents. The two-day workshop on July 4 and 5 is being organized at Frank Anthony Public School and will be attended by teachers from almost every leading English-medium school in the city.( Times of India-July,4, 2013)

David Cameron ,the  Prime Minister of UK , is launching Telegraph Wonder Women’s ‘Better Sex Education’ campaign.

I have been maintaining, that Sex is a Basic instinct and need not be taught.

The organism knows how to go about it.

It is not a kill to be taught.

Some may disagree stating that there is a lot of difference between Sex and Informed Sex(!).

The latter, unless it is instinctive,is nothing but a deviation(no psychological; connotation) and mostly leads to Perversions, which one might be unaware of before coming in possession of such information.

Despite the emergence of a Free Society( should this be in only Copulation?), the individuals feel awkward in vocalizing sexual thoughts, especially with those who are close to them even!

The Telegraph of UK conducted a Survey to find out what the Students feel about Sex Education.

Excerpts.

I am 16 and I think that sex ed is the funniest and most ridiculously taught of anything. However, it is also the topic that I feel most young people should be informed properly about and not be conformed to using cheesy and corny videos of cartoons, nor should the extent of sex ed in high school be a more sophisticated re-run of corny junior school sex ed videos, or using bananas to practice putting on condoms. It should be changed.

 don’t remember learning much from sex ed. But I did learn quite a bit from Grange Hill.
Mark

QuoteI remember all of the class throwing condoms at the teacher, after she handed them out!
Shanil

QuoteWe had sex education lessons only a few times. But then once in year 9, the boys and girls were split up for an emergency sex education lesson – because my school panicked after two pupils were caught doing naughty things in the gardens on a school trip. In that ‘special’ class, the teacher was great – just open and honest.
Adam

QuoteAll that happened to us was we were shown scary pictures, got taught how to put condoms on a fake penis and that was it. We were all already sexually aware from the internet.
The scary pictures made us feel like: IF YOU HAVE SEX – THIS WILL HAPPEN AND YOU WILL DIE. 

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/better-sex-education/10285698/Sex-education-Top-10-nightmare-memories.html

Porn Sex Real Sex Difference Porn Star Speaks.

Pornography is here to stay as it has been right from the days of the early Man.

Please read my post on History of Pornography.

People watch Porn and many attempt what is portrayed in the Porn Movie Clips.

Just how real is Porn Film?

Is it worth following?

To those who smirk,I am sure they do smirk after watching Porn!

Porn is akin to regular Movies which we see.

While there is an element of reality in Movies., most of them are fantasies. subjective.

People fulfill their wishes which they know can not be fulfilled, like running around a girl as in the Movies,fighting ten people single handedly, shooting down people,effortlessly,handling even a Machine Gun with one hand or crying aloud in grief film style.

The same is true of Porn Films.


Pornography is here to stay as it has been right from the days of the early Man.

Please read my post on History of Pornography.

People watch Porn and many attempt what is portrayed in the Porn Movie Clips.

Just how real is Porn Film?

Is it worth following?

To those who smirk,I am sure they do smirk after watching Porn!

Porn is akin to regular Movies which we see.

While there is an element of reality in Movies., most of them are fantasies. subjective.

People fulfill their wishes which they know can not be fulfilled, like running around a girl as in the Movies,fighting ten people single-handedly, shooting  down people,effortlessly,handling even a Machine Gun with one hand or crying aloud in grief film style.

The same is true of Porn Films.

There is an element of reality and more of Fantasy and unfulfilled and un-realizable  fantasies.

At best Porn can only arouse and increase your expectations and if you are normal you will enjoy real Sex with the impressions of Porn watching.

If abnormal you will attempt to pursue it in real Life and come to grief.

Porn provides a safety outlet for repressed, perverse desires and helps society.

Please read my post on this.

Porn Sex and Real Sex.
Porn Sex and Real Sex.

Story:

It seems like common sense that sex in porn doesn’t mirror what men and women do in their own, non-commercialized bedrooms. But this point gets really driven home in “Porn Sex vs Real Sex: The Differences Explained With Food,” a video which shatters the illusion the porn is anything like real sex by going back to basics: fruit metaphors.

Inspired by the video, HuffPost Live spoke to women working in the porn industry, and asked them to share what they believe the difference between porn sex and real sex is.

Jincey Lumpkin, Esq., Chief Sexy Officer of Juicy Pink Box, noted that porn involves, “posturing for the camera,” “flattering” angles and “cutting together of the scenes” — all of which, if reenacted by normal people, can “take away sometimes from the pleasure and enjoyment aspect” of their sexual experiences.

Nina Hartley, an adult film actress, agreed, emphasizing the performative aspect of porn. She told HuffPost Live host Caitlyn Becker:

Pornography is a paid, professional performance by actors. It is a fantasy, it is not meant to be a rulebook and guidebook or a how to as a general rule. And it goes to show how poor our sex education is in this country that people are reduced to looking at an entertainment medium for information about the body.

 

Both the “Porn Sex vs. Real Sex” video, and HuffPost Live’s conversations with Lumpkin and Hartley, contribute to a greater dialogue about porn as a sometimes unrealistic fantasy. The more we discuss these subjects, the more women and men alike will hopefully realize that they don’t have to force themselves to emulate what they see in porn films. Fantasy is great, but the reality of sex based on one’s own desires — and separate from the pressure to look or act a certain way — can be even better.

Source:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/05/porn-star-nina-hartley-real-sex_n_3708132.html

You may watch Video on Real Se Pron sex explained with fruits in YouTube.

I am not posting it in the site.

Women ‘Fart,Do Not Focus’ During Sex

In a Study it is revealed that women fart, although Vaginally and are unfocused unlike Men.

What Happens to Women during Sex.,Study.
What Happens to Women during Sex.
Some points are;

Women develop Headaches ,increasing the excitement during Sex.

Scream,Moan or do both.

Felt like peeing.

Know if the act is going to be satisfactory or not,

Feel Vaginal Dryness and irritated.

Apart from this study,the unspoken is ‘ I did not want it!”

But sometimes, things happen during sex that can take even the most sexually confident of us aback. There are sounds, and smells and feelings that make us stop and think … “Uh, what just happened?” “Is that normal?”

So we asked a team of sex-health experts to spill: What are some typical things that happen to women during sex, but that you never really hear people cop to or wonder about? And what, if a


In a Study it is revealed that women fart, although Vaginally and are unfocused unlike Men.

What Happens to Women during Sex.,Study.
What Happens to Women during Sex.

Some points are;

Women develop Headaches ,increasing the excitement during Sex.

Scream,Moan or do both.

Felt like peeing.

Know if the act is going to be satisfactory or not,

Feel Vaginal Dryness and irritated.

Apart from this study,the unspoken is ‘ I did not want it!”

 

But sometimes, things happen during sex that can take even the most sexually confident of us aback. There are sounds, and smells and feelings that make us stop and think … “Uh, what just happened?” “Is that normal?”

So we asked a team of sex-health experts to spill: What are some typical things that happen to women during sex, but that you never really hear people cop to or wonder about? And what, if anything, do they mean? Here’s what they said.”

Source:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/07/22/women-during-sex-things-that-happen_n_3623150.html?ir=Women&utm_campaign=072213&utm_medium=email&utm_source=Alert-women&utm_content=Title

 

The ‘Sex Education Syllabus’

What is Sex Education?

Let’s see its Definition.

Burt defined sex education as the study of the characteristics of beings; a male and female.[1] Such characteristics make up the person’s sexuality. Sexuality is an important aspect of the life of a human being and almost all the people including children want to know about it.[citation needed] Sex education includes all the educational measures which in any way may of life[clarification needed]that have their center on sex. .Shorn of jargon, it is about teaching what Sex is about.

You may notice the definition needs ‘citation’ for sensuality.

If you can not define what sexuality is, which I am sure we can not define as we can hunger and other instincts,how does one go about it?

Sensuality and Sex appeal are the fundamentals of Sex.

Sex education includes all the educational measures which in any way may of life[clarification needed]that have their center on sex

Same confusion in definition…
The topics taught in Biology already.

Now Communication is not as a Soft Skill or they talking about intercourse being taught in Communication Skill?

Onto Sexual Pleasures and Orientation.

How do you explain Sexual Pleasure ?

That ‘Straight Sex’ is more pleasurable than , say gay Sex,Lesbianism, Sadism,BDSM, Fellatio and other designated Perversions?

Wait, people might take objection to my grouping gay sex and lesbianism with perversions for most countries have legalized it.

How does one compare?

By trying out each one of them?

And how do you decide which age group can understand what?

under the guise of Sex Education what is about to happen is the detailed Illustration of all perverse sexual activities and a suggestion that it might not be good for the individual and the Society, in the passing.

Absolute rubbish.

If people want to delude , by introducing Sex education they would not be barring the Sex Information available on the Internet and in fact give the children all the Information under one head with official legal sanction
.


Recently the Government of India has proposed the age of consensual Sex from 18 years to 16 Years.

It is also talking about ‘Sex education ‘ to children.

This has sparked off a controversy.

The Elite(?) are for Sex Education while the other Group opposing it.

What is Sex Education?

Let’s see  its Definition.

Burt defined sex education as the study of the characteristics of beings; a male and female.[1] Such characteristics make up the person’s sexuality. Sexuality is an important aspect of the life of a human being and almost all the people including children want to know about it.[citation needed] Sex education includes all the educational measures which in any way may of life[clarification needed]that have their center on sex. He further said that sex education stands for protection, presentation extension, improvement and development of the family based on accepted ethical ideas. Leepson sees sex education as instruction in various physiological, psychological and sociological aspects of sexual response and reproduction.[2] Kearney also defined sex education as “involving a comprehensive course of action by the school, calculated to bring about the socially desirable attitudes, practices and personal conduct on the part of children and adults, that will best protect the individual as a human and the family as a social institution. Thus, sex education may also be described as “sexuality education”, which means that it encompasses education about all aspects of sexuality, including information about family planningreproduction (fertilizationconception and development of the embryo and fetus, through to childbirth), plus information about all aspects of one’s sexuality including: body imagesexual orientationsexual pleasurevaluesdecision makingcommunicationdatingrelationshipssexually transmitted infections (STIs) and how to avoid them, and birth control methods.[3] Various aspect of sex education are to right[clarification needed] in school depending on the age of the students or what the children are able to comprehend at a particular point in time. Rubin and Kindendall expressed that sex education is not merely a unit in reproduction and teaching how babies are conceived and born. It has a far richer scope and goal of helping the youngster incorporate sex most meaningfully into his present and future life, to provide him with some basic understanding on virtually every aspect of sex by the time he reaches full maturity.[4](Wiki)

Shorn of jargon, it is about teaching what Sex is about.

You may notice the definition needs ‘citation’ for sensuality.

If you can not define what sexuality is, which I am sure we can not define as we can hunger and other instincts,how does one go about it?

Sensuality and Sex appeal are the fundamentals of Sex.

Sex education includes all the educational measures which in any way may of life[clarification needed]that have their center on sex

Sex Education in Schools.
Sex Education in Schools.

* Look at the expression in the Image above!

Same confusion in definition.

About

 family planning,

 reproduction (fertilization, conception and development of the embryo and fetus, through to childbirth),

plus information about

all aspects of one’s sexuality including:

body image,

 sexual orientation,

sexual pleasure,

 values,

 decision-making,

 communication,

dating,

relationships,

sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

and how to avoid them,

body image

 

 and birth control.

 

fertilization, conception and development of the embryo and fetus, through to childbirth.

The topics  are  taught in Biology already.

Now Communication is taught as a Soft Skill or they talking about intercourse being taught in Communication Skill?

So is decision making.

Onto Sexual Pleasures and Orientation.

How do you explain Sexual Pleasure ?

That ‘Straight Sex’ is more pleasurable than , say gay Sex,Lesbianism, Sadism,BDSM, Fellatio and other designated Perversions?

Wait, people might take objection to my grouping gay sex and lesbianism  with perversions for most countries have legalized it.

How does one compare?

By trying out each one of them?

And how do you decide which age group can understand what?

under the guise of Sex Education what is about to happen is the detailed Illustration of all perverse sexual activities and a suggestion that it might not be good for the individual and the Society, in the passing.

Absolute rubbish.

If people want to delude , by introducing Sex education  they would be barring the Sex Information available on the Internet, …well and in fact give the children all the Information under one head with official legal sanction!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexuality_education

Related:

A government review has, as expected, ruled that sex education in schools will from 2011 be taught as part of the personal, social, health and economic (PSHE) curriculum. This means that children will learn about sex in the broader context of relationships, homosexuality, marriage, civil partnerships, divorce and abortion, rather than simply as the biological facts of puberty and reproduction formerly taught in science classes. This new form of sex education will also become the norm in both primary and secondary schools, and for children aged 15 and up, it will be compulsory, regardless of parental objection.

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2009/nov/05/sex-education-schools-compulsory

Neighbors Having Loud Sex? Try This.


How to Stop neighbors from Having Loud Sex_jpg.
How to Stop neighbors from Having Loud Sex.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/copyranter/how-to-stop-your-neighbors-from-having-loud-sex

 

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Kerala’s Porn Addiction


The reasons cited seem to overlook the simple important reason, that Porn is titillating.

I do not see how sex education will make you not to watch porn as also a ‘Conservative Society’

Does it mean that porn watching will be less if your society is Liberal?

Please read my blogs on Sex.

By the way, if Kerala is ‘God‘s own Country’ then what about others? God’s rented Countries? or Devil’s own Countries?

The Facts - Sex Education DVD for parents of 1...
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Story:

God’s Own Country, of late, is in the news for all the wrong reasons. The latest addition is the alarming increase in the rate of pornography. When compared to other states, Kerala is the largest producer of porn videos in India, say industry insiders. They point out alcohol addiction, lack of sex education and a conservative society as factors contributing to this development.

“Surprisingly, a large number of school children are addicted to porn,” says psychiatrist C P Somanath. He recently attended to a case where a Class II student was brought to him by the boy’s parents for counselling as he was caught watching a porn video.

Dr Somanath points out that if children are exposed to such videos during their sexually evolving stage, they get acquainted with such videos and even develop an addiction towards it, which may continue even after they get married. Psychologist Dr Vipin too shares the viewand says that excessive use of porn for sexual pleasure has paved way for cybercrimes and rapes too.

About 136 cases of obscene publication or transmission were reported under the IT Act by
the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) in 2011, and Kochi was identified as the hub of cybercrime, followed by Calicut and Trivandrum. “Those exposed to such obscene videos have poor impulse control as their mind would be pre-occupied with such obscene and gross thoughts,” explains Dr Somanath.

The lack of sex education in the state is also to be blamed for this development. “Through sex education, children should be taught to respect their body, what to watch and what not to, and practice a healthy relationship with their partner and friends of the opposite gender. However, sex education is almost nil in most schools in the state,” says Dr Vipin.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life–style/relationships/man/woman/Keralas-porn-addiction-on-the-rise/articleshow/14732561.cms?intenttarget=no

Lose Virginity For Reality Show, MTV


For Rating and as a consequence Dollars. people are prepared to go to any lengths!

A tipster sent this to me this morning and after clicking the link, I — the guy who thought he had seen it all from our pop cultureoverlords — literally gasped:

MTV Campaign
MTV Campaign (Photo credit: garretkeogh)

DO YOU WANT TO TAKE THINGS TO THE NEXT LEVEL? LIKE, ARE YOU READY TO HAND OVER YOUR V CARD? OR DO YOU HAVE A FRIEND WHO IS READY TO LOSE IT?

Young adulthood is a time for exploration. New relationships, fresh experiences and sexual firsts…

Now MTV is looking to frankly capture that journey in a new series called My First…We’re looking for adults who are ready to go all the way. Let MTV come along on your journey… as you try to lose your virginity! (Note: We will be filming whether or not you accomplish this goal… but NOT the act itself. Duh.)

If you are 18 years or older and are willing to candidly allow MTV to accompany you on the journey toward “losing it,” please send us an email.

MTV can and undoubtedly will hide behind the fact that 18 year-olds are legal adults, but you can prey on adults just as easily as you can prey on children, especially young adults conditioned by pop culture outlets like MTV to believe celebrity and narcissism are virtues.

And the bait here is celebrity. Debase yourselves for our cameras and we’ll make you a star! This isn’t about love or finding love or even losing your innocence to someone you love. This is about the lie that…

Young adulthood is a time for exploration. New relationships, fresh experiences and sexual firsts…

I seem to remember when we were the kind of culture that protected young people from the indignities of loveless sex and did everything in our power to educate about the financial, emotional, and medical pitfalls of leading with your sexuality over your heart.

What MTV is doing might be legal but it’s still a sleazy exploitation of some of our most vulnerable citizens. And the dangling of celebrity and a camera from a swanky studio lot is no different than dangling candy and a camera from your open raincoat.

If you want to debase yourselves, it’s a free country. To entice others, however, is an act of evil.

http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Hollywood/2012/05/18/MTV-Lose-Virginity-Reality-Show

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