It produces the opposite reaction. You have run the family for nearly 30 t0 40 years and you have taught , or you thought you had taught your children to face Life,. Why not leave them be? What could they do? They might make mistakes. like you and I have mad when we were young, or for that matter even now. Why not admit that the younger generation may be( in Fact) is more intelligent in handling Life than we did? Let them run the family the way they want. If you have brought them up well and proper they would have the basic Morals alright. That would do. Not the silly expectation of them coming to you and submitting their account and informing y
Technically this is the correct Vedic marriage procedure. Thaali is a concept taken by Aapasthamba, while composing the Aapasthamba Sutra for people living south of the Vindhyas. Please read my post on this. So the objection on these grounds seem to be trivial. Another difficulty faced by the Boys' parents is that they are used to demanding money from the Bride's side during the Marriage while in the North Indian marriages(at least in Punjabi and Kashmiri at least) the Boys' parents are made to shell out for the bride in the form of more jewellery and gifts to her relatives. But once these initial hiccups are over, the parents of both he children have become very close and each tries to accommodate the other! The level of looking after the guests is some thing seen to be believed. And , irrespective of family misunderstandings, (which family does not have), the relatives rally around and take a personal interest, not delegating things to Agencies, even though they have arranged things through the Agencies. And I have found the girls, though they are very well employed and hail from well to do families, to be very respectful, easy-going and at ease with the new-found relatives. Though I am not related to these boys closely they often call me up for no specific reason but to chat and enquire about my family and they in general are good. But this depends on how one interacts with them.
Moon is used in world literature as an allusion,allegory simile to express various emotions. The practice of using the concept Moon as a part of Life goes to the Tamils. There is no Poet who has not sung about Moon right from the Classical Age of the Sangam till the present day. It is … Continue reading The Courtyard Of Moon
I am unhappy. These are the most heard from people. This is also reported to be cause of Stress. People attribute this to the changed Lifestyle and a host of other factors, like work pressure,peer Pressure. But there are more fundamental issues involved. One is regarding our-self. Another is how we behave with others. Regarding the first point, our attitude of Comparing ourselves starts in childhood.
Many of us, after spending a lot money on purchasing a New House, entrust the carpentry work/Interior Decorations to some carpenters or some people styling as Interior decorators. We do not enter into any Warranty. The Carpenter, Interior decorators tell you that the raw material they have used is the best and the Wood will … Continue reading Warranty For Interior Decoration Carpentry