Why People Cheat,They Love. It Study


Cheating at the rudimentary form we call a part Prank and we enjoy it.

We do indulge it in more times than we care to admit.

And if we are honest to ourselves, we enjoy them.

Every one is Honest unless one is caught or where there is no opportunity to cheat.

Whether we like it not , despite social strictures, we continue cheating, either in a harmless way ot deliberately.

Only when the cheating hurts the others it is to be condemned, other wise it’s fun.

A study has affirmed the fact people enjoy cheating.

Dos And Don’ts Hinduism.


Though there are lots of Rules on Behaviour , a short list is prescribed by Patanjali in his, Yoga Sutras.

These rules re classified under two categories.

One is what to do and another what not to do.

Things what one is not to do.

1.Inflicting Pain on any living being.(Ahimsa)

2.Not speaking Untruth.(Sathyam)

One may notice here that speaking Truth is not classified under things to do or as a Positive concept.

The reason is that by refraining rom speaking Untruth amounts to speaking Truth.

Sometimes keeping quiet when forced to speak untruth amounts to speaking Truth.

Power Changes People’s Brain Study Confirms.


People change with Power.

The power may come in many denomination.

Money,Political Power,Muscle Power…..

Power also corrupts.

And ‘Absolute Power corrupts Absolutely,

What we know by experience is confirmed by a Study.

Power effects changes in the Brain.

if we remember power is temporary and being Humane is permanent one would not be intoxicated with it.

Out of Attachment arises Anger,Of attachment intellect stumbles,when intellect stumbles, Man perishes.

Story:

Now with a new study there’s evidence to support that claim.

Requiem for Identity Tamils Yet Non Tamils


I attended a close Relative’s wedding recently.

The Bride’s Family are Tamils settled in Mumbai about Forty years back.

They claim they are Tamils’speak Tamil at Home, their Mother Tongue is Tamil, declare they are originally(?) from Palghat.

The Marriage was conducted South Indian Brahmin style.

On the dais, when the final ceremonies of tying the Mangal Sutra(Thaali), Uncle of the bride, who was standing near me exclaimed, on a particular ceremony being performed(Aupaasana),

‘Yeh, pehle Karna Thaa’ ( this should have been performed earlier)

I asked him what his mother tongue is.

He replied ‘Tamil”

The behavior of the Tamils who are settled or even on a short stay to the Northern States, particularly Mumbai, New Delhi, is funny to say the least.

They talk in Hindi, watch Hindi Channels when on a trip to their relatives Homes in their Native State and converse in Hindi< much to the discomfiture and embarrassment of their Hosts.

They add comments,

'ye madrasi ka practice hai'

They seem to imagine they are culturally superior to their people speaking their language, forgetting the fact that they are never accepted as a Northerner in the states where they are settled in.

You might have been living in these states for even fifty years, still you are a Madrasi'!

Yet for important functions they come back to their Native place or State!

They speak Hindi, English an Tamil, can not write or read Tamil, yet call Tamil as their Mother tongue.

Yet they follow Tamil Traditions.

They just do not seem to know their Identity.

They belong neither here nor there.