ramanan50

Choose Brahmin Mates Swayamvara At Chennai

In consumer forum on April 23, 2014 at 11:01

I have lamented the fact that the Brahmin Community is finding it difficult to find suitable Mates .

 

This problem has become more pronounced now because of various factors.

 

1.Girl’s parents delaying the marriage.

 

2.Girls and Boys having imaginary Ideal Girl/Boy and waiting for a Wave length.

 

3.As the custom of circulating the Horoscope  is getting diminished because of shrinking Families and same community friends, the choice becomes

restricted to  only Internet, Matrimonial sites.

 

Though these are effective, the communication conveyed through these sites by the uploaders  do not receive possible Brides/Grooms.

 

And in most of these sites, the educational and salary expectations are so high and unrealistic, one wonders how people with less qualification/Income get married at all.

 

In the case of Boy’s parents willing to marry a Girl from of a Family of not affluent means, the girl’s parents suspect that there is some thing wrong with the boy,because of , in their perception,unequal alliance.

 

And in may a case, the communication between the parents of the Boys and Girls do not proceed smoothly as person to person communication is much better than Email/Video Chats.

 

I found the following information in Facebook and am sharing it.

 

Marriage proposals at Chennai.

Swayamvara, Chennai

 

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  1. My god sir what you said is 100% true even the fact that girls and girls parents never trust if boy is well to do and girl is not even then they doubt at this rate our community is really going nowhere and of course un-realistic expectations every house some thing will not be 100% perfect why cant we accept that i don’t know

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    • Boys and girls must understand that there is no such thing as an ideal Man r Woman.If parents are looking fro Life partners for their children, children must get involved and ensure that they actively participate in choosing the partner after listening to parents.One has o be reasonable in looking for a partner ,at the same time the partner so chosen shall be good for the family and shall not break up the Family

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  2. It is true Sir. Brahmins are indeed finding it difficult to get their children married. With the same intention my cousin & I started a closed group to help people within the community married.

    This is a free service and is open to Iyers & Iyengars only. People willing to get married or looking at getting their children / cousins married then please email me at nithya.srinivasan16@gmail.com. As policy, we do not give conduct certificate to any girl/boy since good/bad is a personal choice and no one can comment on it. Based on your details, we will share profiles of girls & boys!

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